December 14

Want to finally fall in love with yourself again?


Let me ask you something. Have you ever looked yourself in the mirror and wondered when you stopped loving yourself? Or, maybe you’ve fallen into a habit of self-criticism without even noticing. You’re not alone. In a world that’s constantly hustling and bustling, finding time to practice self-love often takes a back seat.

But here’s the truth: loving yourself is not just a luxury; it’s essential for your well-being. Today, let’s explore how you can rekindle that spark of self-love and fall in love with yourself all over again.

Understanding Self-Love

Self-love is a journey, not a destination. You have this life experience right now, why not appreciating yourself, flaws and all, and acknowledging your worth? It’s not selfishness, it’s pure self-respect. I believe we owe ourselves that, wouldn’t you agree?

Self-love goes beyond the occasional spa day or indulging in your favorite treat. It’s an appreciation of your worth. It means taking care of your needs – emotionally, physically, and mentally. Self-love involves forgiving yourself, and celebrating your progress, not just your achievements. It’s about understanding that you are enough just as you are.

And, loving ourselves wholeheartedly and unconditionally is also setting boundaries, taking care of your needs, and being kind to yourself. Self-love empowers you to make healthier choices and live a more fulfilling life. When you love yourself and treat yourself with the same respect you would to a dear friend, you’ll notice how much more enjoyable life gets.

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The Journey of Losing Touch with Self-Love

Life’s challenges often make us forget the importance of loving ourselves. It’s easy to lose touch with self-love.

Maybe you’ve been through a tough breakup, faced career setbacks, or navigated challenging family dynamics. These experiences can lead to a negative self-image and self-doubt. Over time, you might start believing that you’re not worthy of love or happiness. But remember, these are just thoughts, not truths.

Negative self-talk, societal pressures, and the hustle of daily life can lead to a disconnect. Like a garden untended, our self-love can wither away under neglect. Remember, it’s never too late to start watering it again.

Actionable Steps to Reignite Self-Love

If you want to infuse more self-love into your life, here are some ways you can do it:

  1. Start with Self-Acceptance: Self-acceptance is the cornerstone of self-love. Begin by accepting yourself as you are, including your unique traits. Write in your journal about the things that make you, you – your passions, your quirks, even your perceived flaws. Recognize that these characteristics are what make you special. Use positive affirmations to reinforce your worth. Say to yourself, “I am enough, just as I am.”
  2. Cultivate Self-Compassion: Life is a series of learning experiences. When things don’t go as planned, instead of being hard on yourself, offer compassion. Be as kind to yourself as you would be to a dear friend. We can often be harsh and even rude to ourselves, but try not to criticize. Practice self-compassion by acknowledging that everyone has tough days. That’s part of life. Giving yourself credit for doing the best you can, is a good example of self-compassion in action. Remember, it’s okay to make mistakes. Practice speaking to yourself with kindness and understanding. A small daily act of self-compassion, like placing your hand over your heart and saying, “It’s okay,” can be incredibly soothing.
  3. Set Boundaries for Self-Care: Setting boundaries is a profound act of self-love. It means saying no to others when you need to say yes to yourself. Start by identifying areas in your life where your boundaries are being crossed. It could be work, relationships, or social obligations. Practice expressing your needs clearly and assertively. Remember, setting boundaries isn’t selfish; it’s necessary for your well-being. Learn to prioritize your needs and say no with kindness and firmness. It’s not rude, it’s caring about yourself, because YOUR time matter just as much as others.
  4. Celebrate Your Uniqueness: You’re one of a kind. Embracing your individuality is a joyful aspect of self-love. Take time to explore and celebrate the things that set you apart. Engage in activities that allow you to express your creativity and your true self. It could be painting, writing poetry, or hiking in nature. Find joy in your uniqueness and remember that there’s no one else quite like you.
  5. Practice Gratitude: Gratitude can transform your perspective on life and foster self-love. Start a daily practice of listing things you’re grateful for about yourself. It could be your resilience, your sense of humor, or your ability to empathize with others. This practice helps shift your focus from what you think you lack to the abundance that lies within you.

Embracing the Journey

Self-love is an ongoing journey. It requires patience and persistence. And remember, the path to self-love is not linear. There will be days when it feels effortless and days when it feels out of reach. Be patient with yourself. Celebrate each step you take, no matter how small. Embrace the ups and downs of this journey, knowing that each experience is adding to your growth.

Each step you take on this path is a celebration of who you are. Embrace your journey with open arms and a loving heart.


All in all, self-love is all about reconnecting with your inner self. It’s about acknowledging your worth, embracing your uniqueness, and treating yourself with kindness.

Falling in love with yourself again is a beautiful and transformative journey. It’s about coming back to your true essence and recognizing your inherent worth. Remember, the most enduring love story of your life is the one you have with yourself.

Start today, take small steps, and watch how these changes bring more joy and fulfillment into your life. Remember, you deserve all the love and happiness in the world. It starts with loving yourself.

If you want me to help you along the way, click HERE to apply for private coaching! If we’re a good fit, I can have you started ASAP. Your life happens right now, and there’s no replay. Let’s make it worthwhile.

With gratitude,




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